So before this ‘blesser’ fad popped up we had the reign of the side chick. And we know how the internet is the praise temple of all things wrong/bad (don’t deny it, you know it’s true). Anyway it bothered me then and it bothers me now. What bothers me more are the women who attack the women that their men cheat on them with, I’ll explain.
First of all, the person who owes you their loyalty is your partner NOT their mistress. The reason you’re hurting is because of YOUR PARTNER and not the other woman. The other person owes you zero loyalty and no explanation, they mean nothing to you and therefore have no way of causing you hurt. Your partner on the other hand, different story. You care for them, their actions have a bearing on your feelings, they promised you their love and loyalty. Who approached the mistress? Your man. Who made a move? Your man. Who lied to you? Your man. Who deceived you? Your man. Who’s in a relationship with you? Your man.
Some women will say, “The mistress made a move, she wooed my man, she’s a whore, man stealer/snatcher, it’s her fault”….. hmm … okay, she wooed him and succeeded RED FLAG right there.
How did she succeed? Who accepted her advances? Your man!! If he was loyal to you and cared, he would’ve resisted her temptation and fled. It would never have happened over and over and over. So I ask again, who betrayed you and your trust? YOUR MAN!!
So you beat up his mistress, then what? She would have known not to mess with other people’s men but what about your man? He goes unharmed. Allowing him chance to just go after another woman. Because no matter how many mistresses you confront/insult/beat up/humiliate, your man will still be a cheater. You will still have the problem with you, nothing solved, nothing gained, only a man who makes you look a fool.
Not worth it.
So woman to woman….. hold on to your dignity, be the bigger person, know your worth, let him go. Trust me, he’s not worth it, and he’s most definitely not worthy of you.
P.S. If you really feel the urge to let out your frustration physicaly, you might want to beat him and knock the faithful right into him.... just don't say I told you to :)
First of all, the person who owes you their loyalty is your partner NOT their mistress. The reason you’re hurting is because of YOUR PARTNER and not the other woman. The other person owes you zero loyalty and no explanation, they mean nothing to you and therefore have no way of causing you hurt. Your partner on the other hand, different story. You care for them, their actions have a bearing on your feelings, they promised you their love and loyalty. Who approached the mistress? Your man. Who made a move? Your man. Who lied to you? Your man. Who deceived you? Your man. Who’s in a relationship with you? Your man.
Some women will say, “The mistress made a move, she wooed my man, she’s a whore, man stealer/snatcher, it’s her fault”….. hmm … okay, she wooed him and succeeded RED FLAG right there.
How did she succeed? Who accepted her advances? Your man!! If he was loyal to you and cared, he would’ve resisted her temptation and fled. It would never have happened over and over and over. So I ask again, who betrayed you and your trust? YOUR MAN!!
So you beat up his mistress, then what? She would have known not to mess with other people’s men but what about your man? He goes unharmed. Allowing him chance to just go after another woman. Because no matter how many mistresses you confront/insult/beat up/humiliate, your man will still be a cheater. You will still have the problem with you, nothing solved, nothing gained, only a man who makes you look a fool.
Not worth it.
So woman to woman….. hold on to your dignity, be the bigger person, know your worth, let him go. Trust me, he’s not worth it, and he’s most definitely not worthy of you.
P.S. If you really feel the urge to let out your frustration physicaly, you might want to beat him and knock the faithful right into him.... just don't say I told you to :)
Thank you. I am always telling women the same thing. The side chick has and never will be the problem. You have gat to be smart to see that in your relationship.
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