Hmmm... Now almost everyone when growing up said the words, "I won't do this to my children" or something in that regard whenever our parent(s) said or did something we didn't like.
At a certain age, we don't see the benefit of certain things 'til a few years later when we realize our parents were only looking out for us when they did what they did, whether we liked it or not.
But we need to understand that they too are only human and so may have umm over done certain things and been wrong a few times but being raised in an African household lol God forbid if you try to point out their wrongs or else aaaahhh pasopo! Hahahaha... That by the way means 'beware' or 'look out' or 'careful' because it is deemed disrespectful.
Anyway, the purpose of this post is to talk about beating as a form of discipline. Now most people disagree with it but c'mon now... the generation raised without physical discipline are the most unruly. I'm not saying we should assault our kids or get crazy with the beating. I just think a slap on the cheek, smack on the bum, a stroke with a cane or belt would do these kids some good.
We think we're being good to them by going easy on 'em and letting 'em get away with certain things but really all that's doing is more harm than good.
And no, I am no parenting expert but I will smack the stupid outta a child because I do believe that when you spare the rod all you're doing is spoiling the child
At a certain age, we don't see the benefit of certain things 'til a few years later when we realize our parents were only looking out for us when they did what they did, whether we liked it or not.
But we need to understand that they too are only human and so may have umm over done certain things and been wrong a few times but being raised in an African household lol God forbid if you try to point out their wrongs or else aaaahhh pasopo! Hahahaha... That by the way means 'beware' or 'look out' or 'careful' because it is deemed disrespectful.
Anyway, the purpose of this post is to talk about beating as a form of discipline. Now most people disagree with it but c'mon now... the generation raised without physical discipline are the most unruly. I'm not saying we should assault our kids or get crazy with the beating. I just think a slap on the cheek, smack on the bum, a stroke with a cane or belt would do these kids some good.
We think we're being good to them by going easy on 'em and letting 'em get away with certain things but really all that's doing is more harm than good.
And no, I am no parenting expert but I will smack the stupid outta a child because I do believe that when you spare the rod all you're doing is spoiling the child
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