*rolling eyes* Here goes another male specimen with a double standard about how men can sleep with whatever, whoever and with no problem but a female does it and she’s a ‘hoe’. Come on people. *sigh*
Times now are different. They are not how they used to be when our parents were growing up and it wasn’t for them how it was when their parents or grandparents were growing up…. Sex today is taken so lightly and casually like it’s nothing which of course has its downsides and so because of this you find most people in relationships engage in sex, it’s the norm now. So imagine a young girl in love that trusts her boyfriend ever so much she’s willing to give him anything to make him happy and he’s a guy, charming, with a silver tongue, high sex drive and fully aware of how much she loves him, of course he’ll get her to sleep with her. This sadly is how we females find ourselves in such situations. So imagine the time period between 16 to 25 years old… how many boyfriends/girlfriends one could have had which equates to how many people one may have slept with. This of course is not the case with everybody but I’m just setting up a scenario. And because of this I don’t think it’s fair to judge someone based solely on their body count because the same way men enjoy sex and freely endulge in it, believe it or not but women do too and that’s okay. You see, sex has been portrayed as a pleasure for men and a chore for women. Like we are supposed to give it to our man for him to enjoy and not for both of us to enjoy. That’s why some females find it difficult to ask for sex because of the abomination that was made to be in a way which made it difficult for females to express themselves sexually unlike the male folk. A guy does it, he’s praised, a girl does it, she’s bashed, called names, slut, hoe/whore.
I strayed a bit there… okay a lot lol my point was, one’s actions sometimes isn’t their personality. Not all virgins are good and kind people with amazing personalities and a stand up character. And not all sexually active people are a rotten kind. Let’s not label people, we shouldn’t judge people based on such things. If someone has slept with 10 people and you’ve slept with1 or 2, you’re not better, you both fornicated you self-righteous twat you. We all have different beliefs, upbringings, standards, morals, codes of conduct etc. so if mine differ from yours, I shouldn’t judge you, I should understand our differences and if I can’t deal with them I should simply find myself in the company of those that share my beliefs without having to bash the ones who don’t. It’s really that simple.
This wasn’t meant to promote sexual recklessness so be safe, ladies don’t give up the cooch to just anyone, fellas don’t stick it up any hole that comes at you, BE SAFE!! WRAP IT UP!
So what's your opinion? How many is too much? Does it matter? Comment below or E-mail me
Well body count should not be used to shame people. I think if we can come from a place of understanding to get the reason WHY she/he had sex with so many people life would be better. A lot of women suffer from insecurity, low self esteem, financial instability, desperation, sexual addictions, the need for approval etc which people take advantage of..others as just "liberal" with themselves. What matters most is that the person is seen for who they are. Personally i do think one should watch who they sleep with and reserve it for marriage, but at the same time I try to understand the reasons and place one is coming from with their "body count". Which is why i won't self-righteously point a finger. We just need to give some empathy....
ReplyDeleteExactly! We also need to stop shaming women for the same things men get a pass and appraisal for.
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