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He Can Get It!

Ever disliked someone upon first meeting and ended up liking them eventually? Yea well there's a name for that, Repulsion Theory. Lol white people have a theory and explanation for everything!
Anyway, we females are a special breed, there's some of us who really like the men who don't pay attention to us. You know the guys that just don't seem to care about us. Yet we fall crazy in love and can not seem to let them go despite the bad treatment. Probably why the common misconception about girls liking bad guys. It's semi true. There is something about a display of a little rebellion.

But I personally like to feel wanted and loved. Like the guy is really happy to have me you know. Show me you care. But at the same time, nobody wants an overly clingy guy. The ones that are 'too nice' because honestly them guys are just annoying. Too much of anything, even a good thing isn't good at all. My opinion.

On choice of men... Women really do have a super power. We can tell at first sight if you're gonna get it or not. We know. Even for a relationship, if something is going to happen, we know. We really can tell.
Men think they decide when stuff is going to happen but really, the women do. We know, if he tries something today, he's gonna get it. Lol. We drop little hints. Resist less, lean in, talk flirty, you know, we make it easy for you to have your way with us.
And sometimes you just look at someone and think "meh, never gonna happen" lol.

Anyway, fellas, if you treat her right and say all the right things and actually prove yourself to her, ooohh best believe, you gon' get it!

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