Unspoken Thoughts

Hello :) (yea still can’t use emojis on here) anyway remember the complaints about school? And can you blame me, two indefinite closures, several go slows and class boycotts, I was mentally disrupted, lost focus but… **drumroll**… I managed to go on to my next year so woop woop *backflips* *moonwalks* and…..*jazz hands* lol okay I’m done. So, it was midnight, everyone in the house had gone to sleep, I’m a night owl so was watching t.v scrolling through channels trying to find something to watch when I saw ‘Nkani yamu sisi’ I like the show so I tuned in and the topic of discussion interested me so here we are… celibacy. First things first, what is to be celibate? Simply refraining from sex/sexual activity and/or marriage. Various people have different reasons for deciding to become celibate. Maybe after having had sex one decides to change for religious purposes or maybe they’ve just had enough or they’re tired of feeling like sex objects or just taking a break, there are several r...

Was in bed yesterday and at around 10:13am… *ding*… a notification on my phone. Twitter, opened it and it was a link to a blog I am highly addicted to, so I quickly sat up and clicked on that link so fast at the excitement of having something interesting to read. So there I was engulfed in the story of this chick who had found herself on a date with a guy who had a bit of an opinion about body counts and a woman with a body count of above 5 was deemed ‘loose’ or ‘easy’ thereby undateable or not wife material but he said for him it was okay because, and I quote, “he is a man”. *rolling eyes* Here goes another male specimen with a double standard about how men can sleep with whatever, whoever and with no problem but a female does it and she’s a ‘hoe’. Come on people. *sigh* Times now are different. They are not how they used to be when our parents were growing up and it wasn’t for them how it was when their parents or grandparents were growing up…. Sex today is taken so lightly and...