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A New Me? :O

A few minutes ago I was sitting thinking about... Well nothing really. Then a random thought popped up... Who am I? What is Zamiwe all about? I instantly went blank. That scared me, alot!
You often hear people say 'no one knows you like you do'. Well folks, I just realized that may not be all the way true.

We get so carried away with life and the curveballs it throws at us that we don't even notice ourselves morphing into something entirely different. Here I was trying to figure out stuff like, when did this happen? How did it happen? Is this a good thing or a bad thing? How do I get back to where I used to be or should I embrace it and take it as an opportunity to learn more about and rediscover myself?
The latter sounded more like a plan than anything else.

Change isn't such a bad thing... Adapting to it on the other hand, woo! Not so much lol. But it's a challenge, and boy oh boy do I love me a challenge *smirks*
I figure the best thing to do is take it a day at a time, figure out the weak spots, strengthen them and go on to be a better me regardless of the change.
Overthinking never helped anyone, and I could be stressing over what could just be my inevitable growth.

*deep breath in* *hold for 5 seconds* *let it go*

Yhup lol that's all I needed to do. That's all we ever need to do. Let it go, don't stress and embrace the change, whatever it may be... Unless you happened to change for the worst then you need to fix that lol... And fast!

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